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I am of so sick on people taking out they're bad moods on me.... I mean I get that you dont sleep much and Im sorry but there's nothing I can do to help you! I mean first out of nowhere you get affectionate and we end up having really nice and intimate sex but then a day or so after you get mean and crabby and start being a complete asshole to me. I mean is sex with me that disgusting to you? Am I that unsatisfying to you? I mean I know I havent had sex with many guys... But I thought that was a good thing.... So what am I doing wrong? Why are you treating me like this. I love you and just want to make sure you're ok. All I ever am is affectionate and loving towards you..... Is that what I am to you? Just a punching bag?

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voren

Hey, I just wanted to see if you were ok. I hope your ok. If you want to talk I'm here. <3

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lostalice95

Im not really ok. But no one seems to care... Its always suck it up and deal with it....

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voren

:( I care. I'm willing to listen if you want to talk about it...you know where to find me, dear.

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remiel

I really doubt that there's a link between having sex and your boyfriend behaving like an asshole. They're two separate things, in my experience. It's not on you that he's moody and crabby and isn't treating you well...that's all on him.

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lostalice95

This is the conversation we had yesterday: He says hes just gets tired of raising me. That He doesnt want to raise his wife AND his kids. He wants to raise his kids WITH his wife. I told him that I didnt need raising Im not a child even though I act like one.

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remiel

I don't know what he was expecting. You are significantly younger than him, no? Age differences don't matter that much when you get older, but in your teens and twenties they can matter a lot.

He either needs to suck it up and deal with it, or end it. Because him expecting you to be someone other than who you are is not okay and won't end well.